Tilak Sarma

In Loving Memory of Tilak SarmaWith profound grief and unbearable pain, we announce the untimely demise of our beloved son, brother, uncle and friend, Tilak Sarma, who was not only the pillar of strength but also the lifeline of our family. You were our lifeline, and after your demise, how we will handle our lives is a question that weighs heavily on us every single moment.
Tilak sacrificed everything for the well-being of his family. From educating his younger siblings, helping them settle in life, to marrying off his sisters, brothers and extending continuous financial support, he stood as our unwavering protector and provider. His love, guidance, and selflessness will forever remain etched in our hearts.
We are at a loss before God, unable to understand why such cruelty befell us. The thought of him lying lifeless and unattended for days is an unbearable and unacceptable pain that will haunt us forever. Our last wish, to see him one more time, was denied by destiny.
Tilak often said he would not return to Assam permanently but would visit us from time to time. God seems to have taken his words literally, as his mortal remains now rest permanently in the USA, far from his homeland.
As a grieving family, with tears and prayers, we release him from all worldly attachments and set his soul free. May his noble soul attain eternal peace.
He leaves behind his ailing mother, his brothers, and sisters in India, who will forever cherish his love, care, and sacrifices. Though distance separated us at the end, our bond with him will remain eternal.
We also wish to express our deepest gratitude to the Assamese community of Dallas, the wider Assamese community across the USA, and his many friends, who have come forward with immense support to perform his last rites. Words are not enough to convey how grateful we are for everything you are doing for our family during this time of unbearable grief. Your compassion and solidarity will remain in our hearts forever.
Tilak Sarma was a truly down-to-earth person, the same with everyone whether children, elders, or people his own age. He never said no to anyone who asked for help.
Even while living in the U.S., whenever he returned to the village, he would instantly connect with everyone. It never felt like he had been away, he would spend time with people, join them in their daily lives, and make everyone feel valued. The village people would often gather around him,
eager to hear his stories about life in the U.S., and he shared them with such joy and simplicity.
He was full of life, fun to be with, and always inspired and motivated others whether in studies, jobs, or any aspect of life.


মৰমৰ মামা,
তুমি কিয় গুচি গ'লা মোক এৰি থৈ। সৰুৰ পৰা মোক তোমাৰ কোলাত লৈ ডাঙৰ দীঘল কৰিলা। ডাঙৰ হোৱাত মোক স্কুলত দিয়াৰ পৰা আজি নৱম শ্ৰেণীলৈ মোৰ লগত আছিলা। মোৰ পঢ়া- শুনা আৰু সুখী ৰখাত মা- দেউতাত কৈ তুমি গুৰুত্ব দিছিলা। কৰ পৰা হঠাৎ ধুমুহা এজাক আহি তোমাক মোৰ ওচৰৰ পৰা লৈ গুচি গল। পাহৰিব নোৱৰা শৈশৱৰ স্মৃতি মোৰ মনত সাচ বহুৱাই থৈ গলা। মনত পৰে তোমাৰ লগত কটোৱা সেই দিন বোৰ। তুমি মোৰ লগত খেলা সময়বোৰ। কিমান যে আশা কৰিছিলোঁ তুমি দুৰ্গা পূজাত আহিবা , আমালৈ আনিবা টোপোলা ভৰাই সুখ, আনন্দ, স্নেহ। কিন্তু নিষ্ঠুৰ নিয়তিয়ে সেই সুখকণ আমাক উপভোগ কৰিবলৈ নিদি তোমাক লৈ গল অচিন অজানা দেশলৈ। বহুত মনত পৰে তোমালৈ....যতে আছা সুখেৰে থাকা। মোক দুৰৰ পৰা আশীৰ্বাদ দিবা যাতে তোমাৰ নাম মই সমাজত উজালব পাৰোঁ। ভাৰতৰ পৰা এই চিঠিখন তোমাৰ বাবে।।
ইতি- তোমাৰ মৰমৰ ভাগিন ৰাখী (Niece- Rakhi)

A shining light
Love that guided me, a warm presence,My uncle's love, a treasure to me.Though time we shared was brief, yet true,Memories of laughter Always shine through.He'd act like an elephant, strong and free,A caring guide,always near to me.In villages walks, we'd talk and smile,Forgetting our worries, at least for a while.Though he is gone, his love remains,A treasure trove of cherished memories.I'll hold on tight, to those memories rare,Grateful for the love, he showed me with care.A memory so precious,Forever in my heart.
- Arpita (Niece)

"Mama, Oh Mama"
Mama, you were the sunshine, the limelight, and the backbone of our family and of myself.It has broken our hearts to lose your guidance, love, and affection.The happiness you gave us will remain forever, even though God has called you home.Mama, your immense kindness, encouragement, and unique qualities will always guide us.Such a dedicated person you were, and your love for adventure has always inspired me and our family.Greatly loved,Deeply missed.
- Ankit (Nephew)

Tilak Da
Tilak Da, you had a heart of gold and were always willing to lend a helping hand to all family, relatives, and friends.You had a unique perspective, great wisdom, and were truly a symbol of a great man.In this difficult time, countless memories come back. You were always a positive influence, and your guidance and encouragement will remain with us forever.You were a dedicated and punctual person... but what happened still feels so unreal.Tilak Da, you will always remind us of accountability and accomplishment.You are like a star-though you may no longer be with us physically, your light will always shine upon us."Gone but not forgotten, Tilak Da."
- Joon and Jitu (Sister and brother-in-law)